A question I asked myself many times, and I know many women are asking themselves the same question.

First of all, why do you even think that? I know it’s a mindset thing. But if you got even this far in reading (I know, it’s only 2 lines) you are looking for an answer. Or more … a conformation.

Sorry, not giving you that.

I am almost 110% certain you are not. But I can say what ever I want, you won’t believe me anyway.

Yes, maybe you spend a bit too much time on Tic Toc or Facebook. Who doesn’t nowadays? (not really an excuse lol) Besides that its useful to give your brain some relax time, you can change that “too much time” very easily. Set a timer. When it goes of, put your phone away. Or remove your notifications. That way you are not tempted to look at it.

But, if you want your conformation, write down what you do the entire day. You will see that you do a lot of things. Probably small things, but everything together it adds up.

When I started out working for myself, I was the one who most of the time, took care of the household and the kids. Hubby was working.

Of course it was no problem I started working when the kids grew older and left the house. Only thing was, I added the work to everything else I was doing. And I felt so guilty when the house wasn’t clean that much anymore. When I skipped cleaning. Not once, but more than once.

Till I realized, there are 2 people in this household. And now both of us have work outside the house.

I don’t try to create a stir here, but sometimes you have to take a look at what you are doing and if there is someone else who can also do some chores to make life easier for both of you.

Everything changes overtime. Nothing stays the same. Sometimes you have to change to make life better.

You are important too.